Why is internet dating so dangerous
There has been more than one study that blames the spike in STI rates on dating apps. All you need to do is commit yourself to having open, honest conversations with each new sex partner before putting your health or theirs at risk.If you have an STI and want to date within a more understanding community of peers, there's even a dating service specifically for people who have STIs, because everyone deserves to find love (and having an STI does not make you undateable).There's hardly a single millennial alive who isn't an avid user of dating apps: They're a fast and easy way to meet hundreds of potential partners, or just an extremely effective method of procrastination.But for all its benefits, there are also a lot of bad things about online dating.
This will not come as a shock to anyone as entrenched in the online dating world as me, but it seems people rarely talk about the fact that actively using dating apps is hard effing work.
Sure, it's a convenient way to meet people you might normally not, but it's also a huge time-suck, especially if you use sites like Ok Cupid and Match, where you have to make and maintain a lengthy profile.
I can't even quantify how many hours per week I spend on Ok Cupid, answering match questions, browsing profiles, and messaging an array of men.
Don't be afraid to Google stalk — if you want to meet someone, it's your right to actually confirm their existence before hanging out (or even chatting) with them.
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