These people represent a slice of the diverse sexualities and relationship statuses of our city.For all their differences, what they have in common is a sharp perspective on the assets and liabilities of dating in Portland.I've found that dating is pretty relaxed around here most of the time, and I honestly feel like people are more themselves.Bri Pruett, 32 Straight, cis, female comedian, and former avid Portland dater, now in a relationship.I knew no one and was completely comfortable going out to events on my own.I noticed that in this town, girls would approach and hit on me 100 percent more than men would."If I had a dollar for every mandolin-playing barback I went out with, I'd have enough money to BUY MY OWN DINNER WHEN I GO OUT WITH THESE MANDOLIN-PLAYING BARBACKS." There's just not enough diversity in Portland—and I mean that in every sense of the word.Dating in bigger cities is different: There are more races, religions, and guys with jobs in finance. ) Suzette Smith, 33 Cis woman, heterosexual, eight years in Portland, single most of them.
I moved here for a job directing art shows in Portland and Seattle.
When I brought this up to a then-new friend he said, "Oh, duh.
I've lived here my entire life and this is the Northwest way!
I dated a dude from Boston for a spell, and he was horrified about my Portland dating experiences. "I recently realized I've never declared my love on any social media sites, so by Millennial Law—I made this up, but I think all millennials get my meaning—I've never actually dated anyone.
But in Portland it's pretty easy to hook up with someone who is deeply invested in their macaroni necklace nonprofit startup woodworking poetry press." In Michigan, people get blackout drunk, and if they're lying next to someone in the morning, they try to date that person for a little while.