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Phrases like “hang/hang out/get coffee” or anything that platonic friends might do, stay away from if you want her to know that you like her. You don’t have to know about our hair (yet) but you at least need to know that hair with black women is a thing.If your first reaction to this section is oblivious AF. Now, you’ve probably dated white chicks and I know they care about their hair too. The biggie, is that you need to know that the black hair experience is different from the white hair experience and what’s more, the most annoying thing about the black hair experience is that most white people have no idea that different.Either way, you’re on brand and I’m here to support you. Now of course, all black men are different blah blah blah, I’m about to paint with a broad stroke here but, I can do that.Now, because you’re a white man, I assume you want to know my qualifications to assist you — white men love a CV and references. I assume you want to date a black woman because you’ve seen all the black girl magic hashtags and are curious why we’re so magical. Black men tend to be, but are not always, up front about their desire to date you.Just know going in, that white people as a group know absolutely nothing about black people’s hair: the care, the products, the maintenance, the styling. I don’t need you to know, I just need you to know that you don’t know. Which is great, black women are very creative and adventurous and bad ass about our hair.I don’t have time to go into it all but I will give you the basics so you’re not caught totally off guard by some of the terminology. She had absolutely no ulterior motive and no shot with me. I hate any kind of exclusive or discriminatory thinking when it comes to race and sex, even when it works in my favor. But in reality as well as on TV and in movies, the highest-profile interracial couples have been white women with black men. She must have read my mind when she made the disclaimer about finding white men attractive, too. She was a “chocolate queen,” but she was open to other flavors. But from a distance, I’ve noticed that when a straight white woman dates a straight black guy, it’s less likely to be part of a pattern, her were TV’s first interracial married couple, and they were played by Franklin Cover, a white actor, and Roxie Roker, a black actress who was also married to a white man offscreen (TV producer Sy Kravitz, rocker Lenny’s dad).

Doesn’t have to be way outside your comfort zone, but a simple statement that you think she’s great/amazing/beautiful/cute/ funny/wonderful and would like to take her on a date/out to dinner will suffice.

We’d rather pretend that you like us for us, not for that specific physical attribute that we share with every other black person. She started to tell me about the guy she lost her virginity to 20 years earlier. Now here is where our interaction started to venture off the rails. Once she found the photo she was looking for, she was on a roll.

She pulled out her phone and began clicking through photos. She showed me a succession of recent pictures of her then-40ish first-timer posing outside shirtless because, well, why not?

and pretty much everywhere with thriving gay nightlife! She was just making conversation, and she was doing most of the heavy lifting, so I let her flex her stuff. Actually, I find them more attractive than white people. In real life, the Kardashians and Jenners aside, Ariana Grande, Heidi Klum, Iggy Azalea, and Nicole Kidman, are just several famous white women who have fallen for famous black men (Rapper Big Sean, singer Seal, NBA star Nick Young, and Lenny Kravitz, respectively).

One of the first things she told me was how attractive she finds black men. In fact, although she complimented my biceps, she made no direct comment on my looks — unless you consider a compliment about “black men” in general a direct compliment to each one of us. This season on Hilary Duff’s Kelsey is in a lust triangle with a white political podcaster and a colleague who happens to be a man of color, and the interracial romance between the characters played by Allison Williams and Daniel Kaluuya was the crux of last year’s Oscar-nominated smash .

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