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Once people do agree to meet, there is the very real issue of ensuring personal safety when meeting someone who is a perfect stranger.That is why the usual first step after emailing is meeting in a neutral place for coffee and conversation.More than a few people I have met in my therapy practice complain that the person with whom they are emailing promptly and abruptly stopped contacting them.Also, there are those who seem to want to engage in emailing and promise to make a time to meet but always put it off to another time.Today, as never before in history, there are communications systems in place that are so rapid and efficient that they have virtually erased distance and time lag. For one, the fact that people easily relocate from one geographical area to another has made it difficult to get to know people because their time in one place is often limited.Paradoxically, at the very same time that distant parts of the world have been brought closer together, young people complain about difficulties in meeting members of the opposite sex. Secondly, many college students do not remain in one school until they graduate but move from one university to another before they decide what career they want to follow.As my mother often said, “Rome wasn’t built in a day.” Meeting the right person doesn’t happen in a day and that is why time and patience are needed.
Finally, be patient in your search for a significant other.
Rather than working for one institution for many years, people constantly look elsewhere for better salaries and opportunities for advancement.
Often, this means relocating to other parts of the country or world.
Human beings come to know one another through the neighborhood in which they live, places they work or houses of worship they attend.
Others meet through community activities and causes with which they are involved.